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Tips On Writing Your Advert
Show don’t tell. For example, it is much more effective to use humor in your ad rather than just saying "I have a sense of humor". Show that you are an educated and intelligent person through interesting word choice, clear ad structure, and colorful and creative descriptions.
Creativity counts. A personal ad can take many forms. A poem, perhaps. One amazing ad consisted entirely of titles — one right after another — of popular motion pictures, carefully chosen and arranged to describe the ad placer.
Show them what YOU would want to know. Make a list of the most important things that you would like to know about a person before responding to an ad. Chances are, others would like to know the same about you. If you work, in what field? Have you ever been married before? Do you have children? Are you looking to make some new friends, or do you want find one special person to settle down with for a lifetime? Keep in mind that common goals are often more important in a relationship than individual interests.
Age isn’t everything, but… It is where a lot of people start. Be sure to include your age in the ad; if you do not want to give your exact age, narrow the range: "early twenties" or "mid forties" for example. If you are fifty but feel thirty, say so? If you are looking for someone outside your age range, give a range for the person you seek as well. Keep in mind that some people will be suspicious of a range that seems too wide — such as "twenty to sixty", and this may limit responses. Likewise, a range too narrow (one to two years) also seems odd. Even those who fall in the narrow range might be hesitant to respond. Stating your age, and avoiding ranges altogether, is generally the best approach.
Describe yourself first. Be careful to avoid creating an ad that is simply a mile-long list of characteristics you seek in another, without saying much about yourself. It is better to let the person reading the ad decide if they might be a match. This does not mean that you should say nothing about what you seek, just don’t overdo it. You do not want to be too picky.
Details, details. How many times have you read a personal ad that states: "I enjoy movies, music, and going out."? This sentence describes millions of people! The idea is to make yourself stand out from the rest! Instead, name a recent movie that you enjoyed. List some of your favorite music styles, song titles, or artists. If you enjoy going out to Italian restaurants, or line-dancing at a country bar on Saturday nights, say so! Ironically, it is the very details that are often overlooked as being insignificant or boring which in fact add the color and depth necessary for a personal ad to be truly effective.
Honesty is the best policy. Above all, be honest when describing yourself. No matter who you are, or what kind of person you are seeking, you have a better chance of finding that person — and with less disappointment along the way — if you are honest from the beginning.
8 Inviting Flirting Signs Women Will Send You
I bet you do! One joke I used to tell with my friends is how I wished women had a "magical light bulb" which shines every time they were attracted to me. It would take all the guesswork out of trying to figure out which women to approach.
Unfortunately there’s no such thing as a magical light bulb!
In order to understand if a woman has attraction, you have to study her body language. If you can detect certain signs of flirting when observing her, then you’ll know she’s attracted to you.
So what are these signs of flirting?
Well in the next few paragraphs, I’ll reveal 8 flirting cues which women send you. If you see ANY of these, you’ll know she’s attracted to you:
Flirting Cue #1: She’s laughing with her friends and looking back at you
Women understand the fact that men are attracted to girls who have a sense of humor. If you see a woman laughing with her friends and then quickly glancing in your direction, you know she’s trying to demonstrate a sense of humor.
By showing off this type of behavior she hopes you’ll pick up on her "fun lifestyle" and will be interested in her.
Flirting Cue #2: She keeps on looking right at you
One way women get men to approach them is to directly look at you and maintain prolonged eye contact. Some will even give a nice smile.
This is probably one of the most obvious flirting signs you’ll receive from a woman!
Flirting Cue #3: She’s checking you out
Yes it’s true…
Women often check out guys!
To detect if a girl is checking you out, watch if she does the ‘vertical scan’.
This is where she’ll look at your face and then moving her eyes from her feet to your heard.
This flirting signal means she’s found something attractive about you and would like see more.
Flirting Cue #4: She’ll try to look best for you
When a woman knows you’ve observed her, she’ll make a quick effort to look her best for you.
To do this, she’ll preen her hair and clothes.
What’s great is these actions are subconscious, so she has little control over doing this. When you see this flirting cue, you know she’s trying to look her best for you.
When you see any of these 4 flirting cues, approach and start talking to her!
Flirting Cue #5: She will open herself up to you
Now once you’ve approach her, you should try to detect a few different flirting cues to detect if she wants you to kiss her or take things to the next level.
The first sign to look for is if she’s trying to open herself up!
When a woman displays an "openness" with her body language, she’s demonstrating a classic sign of attraction.
Open body language means her arms will be spread and her wrists will be turned towards you.
Flirting Cue #6: She’ll stroke herself
When a woman is talking to you she’ll show a sign of flirting by stroking her neck or touching her hair. Also she might even her thigh!
I personally LOVE seeing these signs of flirting!
That’s because when a woman touches these sensitive areas, she’s probably thinking about what YOU could do to them.
Flirting Cue #7: She’ll draw closer to you
Another great sign of flirting is when a woman will draw closer to you during your conversation. She’ll do this to show a desire to create more intimacy during your conversation.
Another trick is she’ll lower her voice to have you draw closer to you!
When you see this, you’re receiving an incredible sign of attraction!
Flirting Cue #8: She’ll scan your face including your eyes and lips
This final flirting cue demonstrates a desire that she wants to be kissed!
When a woman moves her eyes back and forth between your eyes and mouth, she’s showing a classic sign of flirting where she’s thinking about you kissing her.
When you see this flirting sign, act right away…
Start kissing her!
Once you do this, you’ll be on the road towards making things more intimate!
Women give subtle signals to men which indicate attraction.
When you take the time to look for flirting cues, you’ll discover she’s sending signals which mean she wants to get to know you better and make things more intimate!
So pay attention and you’ll be happy with the results!
Tips On Writing Your Advert
Show don’t tell. For example, it is much more effective to use humor in your ad rather than just saying "I have a sense of humor". Show that you are an educated and intelligent person through interesting word choice, clear ad structure, and colorful and creative descriptions.
Creativity counts. A personal ad can take many forms. A poem, perhaps. One amazing ad consisted entirely of titles — one right after another — of popular motion pictures, carefully chosen and arranged to describe the ad placer.
Show them what YOU would want to know. Make a list of the most important things that you would like to know about a person before responding to an ad. Chances are, others would like to know the same about you. If you work, in what field? Have you ever been married before? Do you have children? Are you looking to make some new friends, or do you want find one special person to settle down with for a lifetime? Keep in mind that common goals are often more important in a relationship than individual interests.
Age isn’t everything, but… It is where a lot of people start. Be sure to include your age in the ad; if you do not want to give your exact age, narrow the range: "early twenties" or "mid forties" for example. If you are fifty but feel thirty, say so? If you are looking for someone outside your age range, give a range for the person you seek as well. Keep in mind that some people will be suspicious of a range that seems too wide — such as "twenty to sixty", and this may limit responses. Likewise, a range too narrow (one to two years) also seems odd. Even those who fall in the narrow range might be hesitant to respond. Stating your age, and avoiding ranges altogether, is generally the best approach.
Describe yourself first. Be careful to avoid creating an ad that is simply a mile-long list of characteristics you seek in another, without saying much about yourself. It is better to let the person reading the ad decide if they might be a match. This does not mean that you should say nothing about what you seek, just don’t overdo it. You do not want to be too picky.
Details, details. How many times have you read a personal ad that states: "I enjoy movies, music, and going out."? This sentence describes millions of people! The idea is to make yourself stand out from the rest! Instead, name a recent movie that you enjoyed. List some of your favorite music styles, song titles, or artists. If you enjoy going out to Italian restaurants, or line-dancing at a country bar on Saturday nights, say so! Ironically, it is the very details that are often overlooked as being insignificant or boring which in fact add the color and depth necessary for a personal ad to be truly effective.
Honesty is the best policy. Above all, be honest when describing yourself. No matter who you are, or what kind of person you are seeking, you have a better chance of finding that person — and with less disappointment along the way — if you are honest from the beginning.
