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A fuck buddy is when two people just want sex, no strings attached. Usually people do this because they aren’t getting sex elsewhere therefore feel the need to have a ‘fuck buddy’. With the two people being fuck buddies they can sleep with or have sexual encounters/intercourse with a different person without being in a relationship.

Deirdre: Margret, whats going on between you and Boris?

Margret: Oh, he’s just my fuck buddy.

As a swinger, I get to chat to many folks about sex. The interesting thing is that a lot of folks I chat with inform me that they believe others are enjoying a much better sex life than they are. Usually they say that their sex life is very boring and there is no excitement. The longer the folks has been together the less exciting their sex seems. Naturally, there are people that have a great sex life and have been together forever. These couples are rare in my experience and usually swingers.

A study recently discovered that after a couple of years of marriage, the wife’s interest in sex had shrunk fifty percent. There was also a major decline in intercourse.

What can one implement to heat up ones sex life?

First: Spouse bonding. Women usually enjoy this style of sex. The emotional relating with your partner is the most important. Usually, partners when they first were in lust have a lot of spouse connection in sex. Eye gazing, touchy feely and fluids flowing and the sex is really fantastic! It just flows and there is lots of hugging, kissing and foreplay.

So how do you get more of this fun sex with your lover. One idea in sex to get more out of this concept is to keep your eyes open while having sex. You will find most couples don’t even look at their partner. Eyes unite us and get the sexual juices flowing. for the more adventurous, I recommend opening your eyes while you orgasm. Men find this to be a challenge yet you can do it!

Second: Sex is like a trance. With this idea you go inwards and is all about ones sexual fantasies, sexual feelings or a sex dream. Your eye lids are shut as the sexual connection with your spouse is not necessary. Men like to visualize sex in their minds.

I had a partner who liked to go into another world. I just felt I like a taxi driver taking her to her sexual fantasies. Since I didn’t get to join her sexual adventure, I didn’t feel sexually satisfied. Touching her was one method that I found frustrating. I told her this and she did starting me also.

Third: Sexual Role Play. This is a lot of fun. You can act out a sexual fantasy or become a sexual healer or doctor. You could be an animal. Bondage falls into this version of sex play. This is usually more challenging for folks. However sexual role playing can really rev up your sex experiences.

Fourth: Swinging (my favorite) Swinging is the most exciting sex I have ever experienced! There is nothing like "strange" to get the juices really flowing. However, swinging is only for couples who are very secure in their relationship. If you are looking to swinging to save your marriage, forget it! It is way too dangerous for couples in trouble.

Swinging is only for viable for great partnership who are looking to share sex with others and enjoy their partner having sex with others. If you want to check out the swinging world go to our Swinger Sites Reviews site. There you will find our favorite sites for swinging.

If your sex is boring, and you are really committed. Ask your sexual partner to try something new. Try having your partner take the sexual lead in this adventure. Sexual experimenting can be fun, enjoy yourself!

Before attending a swinger party a couple must learn some etiquette and basic rules first. This is a small guide for new swinger couples.

NEW SWINGER COUPLE ARRIVING!

Since you’re the newbies you need to keep this in mind: swinging is for open-minded couples, it wont be viewed favorably if one partner leaves early and the other stays, the majority of time, if one goes, both go remember you and your mate are trying to become a swinger couple not two single swingers.

THE SWINGER PARTY WON’T LAST FOREVER

Arrive early or alt least on time. Its not fashionable to turn up late to parties, as the night may have already got underway, and may it be people who have already began feel awkward walking in late, it may also be harder for others to fit in. If you’re arriving late give the party host a ring and check with them, they may update him/her on how the night is going so he/she may walk straight into it. Be polite the swinging lifestyle is full of insecurities and uncertainties. You should behave as a real swinger couple. As the saying goes, treat people in the way you want to be treated, sensitively, thoughtfully, understandingly.

IN SWINGER PARTIES, IF YOU’RE NOT FRIENDLY, YOU’RE OUT!

Be friendly with every one, even when not wanting to take it further with them, there should be other things in common, or they may start introducing people. Many swingers don’t swap or have intercourse with other couples but after going to two or more parties

AS ANY PERSON, SWINGERS LIKE GIFTS

Phone the party host and ask them if there’s any thing they need and always arrive with something for the hosts. Pack what ever may be needed – toothbrush, comb, perfume/aftershave, condoms, robe etc. Neat casual clothing and good grooming is in order and always take a robe or negligee – it may be more comfortable as the evening progresses.

HEALTH & HYGIENE

In a swinger party you should interact in many different ways with other swinger couples. The main thing that may turn the potential partners off may be bad breath or body odor. Have a shower before leaving for the party. Only do what is really fun. The whole idea is to enjoy one self, that’s why the lifestyle and its parties exist.

HOW & WHY TO SAY NO

The most basic and important in swinger party etiquette is the right to say no. A simple and polite "No thanks", is all that is required. There’s no need to explain as this may cause problems and hurt. Do not be afraid to say no, every one has the right, and if someone does end up doing things he/she doesn’t want to it may cause more ill-felling and embarrassment.

DO NOT BE PUSHY

If one fancies swinging with someone let them know in a nice, inviting way, if they say no, it is up to them. Do not ask them why, as this could be embarrassing and hurtful. If they decide not to swing with you, do not carry on and try to sweet talk them and flirt with them, as this may do a lot more harm than good.

ALCOHOL

Most people like a few drinks at a party, drinking socially is fine, it may provide a good social platform to get to know other swingers, it may also help anyone relax. Overindulging is not a good thing though, as it may hinder for physical and mental performance, and is a turn off for many people. If anyone needs to drink heavily to participate in the party this isn’t the lifestyle for his/her.

PRACTICE SAFE SEX

It is up to every swinger to protect his/her self and his/her partner. The use of condoms should not offend any one, it is not saying one is dirty, it is simple a means to protect all swingers involved. Anyone not willing to use a condom is selfish and irresponsible. How ever, saying that, if all participating people are happy not to, it may be down to discretion.

DO NOT TAKE SOMEONE TO A SWINGER PARTY WHO IS NOT FULLY INFORMED

This is an obvious one, don’t take any one to a swinger party who doesn’t know what there is going to, it is very embarrassment for every one, and probably may cause problems. Do not take a ticket to a swinger’s party A ticket is someone who goes with another person to the party just to get a third one in, but has no intention swinging, of course no one HAS to swing, but if one person swings, it is normally expected that the other one is willing to swing. The group room is for group swinging As the name suggests, the group room is for group swinging, if any wants privacy do not go to the group room, if one take a partner with him/her into the swinging room they may expect others to ask to join them , obviously still there’s the right to refuse.

DO NOT DISTURB THE SWINGING ENJOYMENT OF OTHERS

If in a bedroom or the group room, do not disturb the swinging of others with prolonged talk. This may be very mood-destroying and very annoying! If a party is BYO, only drink what you bring BYO, also known as BYOB (bring your own booze), only drink what you bring, unless under permission from others.

ENJOY YOURSELF

Probably the most important one, approach every thing with an open mind and positive attitude, act out your fantasies, and enjoy your self.

CALL TO SAY THANKS

Always call or write to say thanks, for one thing it may get anyone invited again, and it may let the hosts know that they provided a good party. If you follow this suggestion you’ll always be well received in a swinger party.

A swinging party where sexual activity is available, but is not required, or expected. Also used to describe swapping up to but not including intercourse.

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