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Quickies… Are the Best Kind of Sex
…Perfect Your Hand Job
The humble hand job comes into its own – literally – during sex in public places. Apart from kissing, using your hands is the lowest-risk sexual activity – and since it’s how lots of us masturbate, the genitals respond nicely to the right type of touch. “Right” usually means she should do it harder and he should go softer (it’s what each sex is most used to). Not much time? Go for a superfast orgasm for her by positioning her (sitting or standing) in front of you. Rest one palm on the top of her pubic bone and press down firmly, pushing forward, pulling back or moving in circles. Next, insert (well-lubricated) fingers: one inside her vagina, the other in her anus. It’s a three-way she won’t mind you suggesting – or repeating. Blow him away (in all senses) by trying this technique: Twist your hands in opposite directions as you move up and down (one clockwise, one counterclockwise) or make two fists around his penis, hold them centrally, then move one downward and the other upward. Use one-word questions to ask for feedback (harder? faster?) so he only has to answer yes or no. Keep the rhythm constant, building up to a fast speed, then slow it down dramatically before moving back up again. Repeat several times, letting him hover on the brink, before tipping him over with a decided flourish.
Oral Sex for Women – Cunnilingus
There is no secret – women like oral sex a lot. Oral sex for women or in other words cunnilingus is something that can make a woman go crazy of pleasure and satisfaction. Due to some anatomic reasons tongue and mouth touching women’s genitals gives incredible feeling for her, but there are some things that partner (men) should know and pay attention to. Cunnilingus is delicate skill, which requires patience, practice and understanding how to do it right.
Six Tips for Sexual Foreplay
Foreplay is a must in sex. This prepares the bodies to enjoy sexual nuances and give each partner the much needed warm up time to get into the mood. So try them out in a sequence.
1. The Precursor
It is always a good way to take initiation in Sexual Matters rather than waiting for your partner to do the same.
Just think that you and your partner have thoughtfully planned for a weekend.Even before you get back home, you start telling him how you are waiting just to grab him and touch and do the things you want to. He would get excited before you lay eyes on him.
The stage has to be set for a fantastic evening, stimulating all the senses.Fantasize about sexy scenes and thereby building your anticipation and creativity.
2. Have a Shower
Cleanliness leads to good sexual performance. A shower builds up your senses.It loosens muscles. It naturally increases your blood circulation thereby making you more receptive to sensual touch.
Better still, you could go in for a shower along with your partner, making it a good beginning of foreplay.
3. Bottom up Approach
It has been observed that during the foreplay, a lot of attention is given to face and upper abdominal parts. The lower body parts are neglected. Based on experience, it is always better to start from the bottom. Try out the toes first, then the legs, inner portion of thighs. This is one important erogenous region often neglected.
Kiss the backside of ankles, Blow on back of their knees. Stroking and massaging the inner and outer portions of the thighs helps in increasing the flow of blood to the genitals thereby making the genitals more receptive to touch and orgasm.
4. The Kisses
Start kissing in a very subtle and gentle manner on their lips. Then you can increase the kissing spreading to the back of neck, ear lobes and the love button.You could start using your tongue enticing her to open her mouth. Start pressing your lips against hers with a bit more passion and harder.
Then once the partner is turned on you can move to explore the other erotic portions.
5. Using your teeth
Starts nibbling the breast gently and then slowly graze using your teeth as finger nails on the shoulders arms and hands.
Sucking the thumb creates slowly biting them while removing fro the mouth is very sensuous.
Slowly increase the sensitivity, physical and emotional.
6. Blind folding your partner
Whenever one of the senses is forcefully covered, the other senses heighten up Blindfolding is a good idea. It leads to anticipation as the person would like to use more of touch and feel.
Kissing and rubbing the bodies is a combination used. You could also use a chocolate for taste and as aphrodisiac. Important thing to remember is that foreplay should lead into an arousal for sexual intercourse. Hence, it should be gradual, slow and involve the bodies, completely exploring the erogenous portions.
