Lube, Toys and Lingerie!
Should these all be included in a normal sexual relationship? I think so, as it is all about getting the sexual satisfaction (orgasms) you deserve, in the way you want them and displaying the fact that you are ready for sex!
Lube now comes in many flavours’ and it’s for both men and women! We all know that women enjoy there sex much more when they are moist and it avoid any soreness or irritation. But lot of women don’t realise the fact is that men enjoy their sex much more when there is something to lubricate the motion. Lube can come from a tube or the more natural saliva and both are appreciated for that quick hand job. And if your sex life is on the more adventurous side and you enjoy any form of anal play, then lube is a forgone prerequisite.
Toys are not just for women, men like them to, both using them on there partner and having them used on themselves. It’s a very intimate act, but once a women has shown her partner how to use her toys and they are introduced in to your mutual masturbation practices, they can lead to a heighten sexual experience for both partners. Remember toys are not limited to dildos and vibrators, which are mainly female toys; cock rings, etc are available to assist in the sexual experience for both men and women.
Lingerie, again this is not just the domain of women now days. Whether it is ‘role play’ costumes or exotic underwear that makes you feel sexy, its function in the sexual encounter is both tactile and visual. The tactile sensations make you feel sexy; the visual aspect demonstrates that you are sexy and ready for it, without having to ask. Unlike a lot of men, most women are self conscious of their bodies and wearing exotic underwear as an open display of ‘availability’ to their partner can be a daunting task. Well ladies, this may not be headline news, but you partner will appreciate every effort you make in this department, not only does it turn him on, but it makes a no nonsense statement that you are ready for sex which can’t be misinterpreted.
So there’s a bit of back ground on lube, toys and lingerie, why not introduce it to your sex life?
